One amazing thing about getting older is how much we earn about ourselves with each passing year. After observing myself for the past couple of decades, I'm really getting a clearer picture of what I want and do not want in my life. It's a very freeing place to be.
I was raised by a single mother who worked really hard to provide for my brother and I. The work she chose to do was labor intensive and low paying. She also had a limited mindset on money that was always present in her conversations and actions. Although I probably should have followed in her footsteps, I found myself really attracted to those who had an abundance mindset. I'll never forget the day I read a passage in one of Brian Tracy's books where he talked about earning five figures in a month. Before then, I never heard anyone talk about making that much money. Earning an hourly wage was all I was ever exposed to. Instantly I knew that I was attracted to the abundance lifestyle. I didn't really get the grasp of earning five figures a month, but to me it meant not having to limit my experiences and I was all for it.
Back in high school there was a group of girls who would come to school totally glammed up. This was way before the age of Instagram and wearing beat faces for the sake of social media. Some of these girls were ridiculed for "doing too much" but I admired their dedication to always looking their best. I was drawn to the idea of putting a little extra effort to making sure you feel and look your best. But, at the same time, I resisted the idea. I was afraid of drawing attention to myself so I opted to maintain a plain jane persona instead.
Sometimes, when we're attracted to something, we experience two types of sensations. One is attraction, the other fear. As we all know, fear leads to inaction. But what if I were to tell you that what you're feeling might be misinterpreted as fear when it's actually not. Look at this way. When you meet someone that you are instantly attracted to, your heart races, your breath is shallow, your palms may even sweat. In the same token, when you are a in dangerous situation, your heart races, your breath is shallow, your palms sweat. Two very different scenarios, yet the outward expressions are similar. Are we fooling ourselves to think that the resistance to our attractions are genuine? Are you misinterpreting your biological responses and allowing resistance to keep you away from what you are most attracted to?
This idea of nurturing your attractions can apply to every area of your life. All you have to do is get in tuned to what you are drawn to. For example, I absolutely love being in environments that are clear, organized, clutter free, modern and beautifully decorated. But, I tend to create clutter as I work. If I allow the messiness to go for too long, my mood changes and my work suffers. Since I'm not a naturally neat person, I have to work every day to keep my space looking the way I desire it. Otherwise, my energy drains and other areas of my life start to suffer.
Our job is to stay connected to our attractions and to always be moving towards them. It's a way of getting back into alignment. When we operate out of alignment for too long, we will suffer the consequences. If I decide to stay in all week and wear comfy house clothes, I'm operating out of alignment, because deep down, my true nature loves the woman who takes pride in her appearance. If the types of relationships you are attracted to are very different from the one you're in, then you aren't nurturing your attractions. If you love scrolling through pics of fitness inspiration on social media, that is what your heart truly wants. Your subconscious is trying to send you a message. Stop resisting and start allowing.
Just because your heart desires it, doesn't mean that it'll be easy to manifest. Getting aligned may take some work but it's so very worth it.
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