I told Val that she was the first person that came to mind when I thought about the topic of personal presentation. Even at our first meeting, she stood out. To me, she was an international woman of mystery and I wanted to get to know her story. When asked about her personal philosophy on looking your best, she responded, "I believe if you look good and feel good. Looking your best directly affects your confidence. I try to make sure that I present my best self at all times, but when I can't, I compensate in other areas. For example, if my hair isn't on point, then I balance by making sure my makeup is perfect or my outfit looks amazing. When my hair is flawless, that can compensate for what I'm wearing. But having the whole package is always better."
I wanted to know if she ever dresses down or if she was always "on." Val's response didn't surprise me. "I enjoy dressing down. Sometimes I want to wear soft cotton tees, a pair of sweats and converse, but I don't because I feel more comfortable when I'm more put together. Even for things like going to the grocery store or visiting the spa, I still want to look presentable. Not looking my best might cost me potential clients." As we reconnected over breakfast, several young professionals stopped by our table to say good morning to Val. She had this attractive presence that seemed to draw others to her. In fact, several of her past clients relationships began when they introduced themselves to her to inquire about her personal style and of ask for helpful tips.
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Val also reiterated how important health and fitness is to looking and feeling your best. "The fastest thing that kills your confidence is weight gain." Putting on a few extra pounds causes your to have to adjust what you normally wear to compensate for the extra pounds. She stays active by doing cardio intense boxing sessions 3-4 times a week to maintain her curvy hourglass figure.
When asked to share advice about elevating one's personal style, Val encouraged everyone to seek out inspiration. Inspiration is everywhere, from magazines to tv and even Instagram. "Make it your mission to find the perfect little black dress. If possible have several variations of a great black dress to wear depending on the event. Pay attention to the details because others will notice."
My thanks to Val for reminding us why it's important to invest a little extra time to present the best version of ourselves. Val and I have been meeting regularly over the past several days and some of her flair for personal style is definitely starting to rub off on me. More to come on that....
If you'd like to connect with Val and her team at LOOKLIVELUXE group for help with personal styling, business branding or interior design, feel free to send her an email. Be sure to follow her LOOKLIVELUXE blog and their Instagram for more style and design inspiration.